The body of 16-year-old Lil-Bouvalu Lyden has been laid to rest at St Therese Parish in Māngere, where many gathered to celebrate his life on Tuesday afternoon.

Lil-Bouvalu, commonly known as Lil-Bou, passed away last week following an early-morning car crash at Randwick Park in Auckland.

His dad, Pouvalu, and mum, Danira, capture the essence of their son’s vibrant spirit and determination in their heartfelt eulogies.

A life full of promise

Born on April 11, 2008, Lil-Bouvalu was the eldest of three children, his mother explains.

She describes him as a beacon of talent and joy, recalling his passion for sports and constant drive to excel.

"Lil-Bou never complained, and he had been training since he was in nappies because I wanted him to make it big,” Danira says.

“We were best friends. We sang in the car. We told jokes. We’d mock each other.”

Lil-Bouvalu’s dad, Pouvalu, remembers his son as a boy with a big heart and a powerful spirit.

"This kid was never meant to be born…but he was a fighter from the start,” he says.

(Left to right) Pouvalu, Danira and Lil-Bou. Photo/Liz Wana Facebook

Danira explains the birthing complications she suffered while pregnant with Lil-Bouvalu.

“When I found out I was pregnant with Bou, there was twice I could have miscarried,” she says.

“When they put Bou on me, I just instantly fell in love.

“I fought hard for him to be alive…I shouldn’t be burying my son.”

Sports star in the making

Lil-Bouvalu’s passion for rugby league saw him play at an elite level, represent his local team, and catch the attention of scouts.

He was involved with the Kau To’a Junior Academy New Zealand, Counties Manukau Rugby League Club and played for the Toa Sāmoa under-17 team.

His talent on the field matched his determination, with his mother sacrificing time and resources to support his dreams.

"I gave up so much for him," Danira says.

"I wanted him to have opportunities we never had."

Danira and son Lil-Bou. Photo/Danira Grant Facebook

Pouvalu fondly recounts their unique father-son bond, which consisted of humour and quiet pride.

"He was my mini-me… he made being a dad easy – and I went all over New Zealand with this kid.”

An outpouring of love

A former student at De La Salle College, the young athlete’s charisma and warmth were felt by all who knew him.

At his memorial service, Pouvalu asked those who had met his son to stand, and the entire room rose to its feet.

"See, my boy? You made the whole church stand,” he says.

Friends, teammates, and community members shared tributes, highlighting Lil-Bou’s infectious smile and kind-hearted nature.

“Lil-Bouvalu’s passing will be a tragic shock to his family and friends, and we will be providing support for Lil-Bouvalu’s family and our young men as they come to terms with this huge loss,” reads a statement issued by his school.

Lil-Bouvalu makes his final visit to his school and was farewelled with a haka performed by students at De La Salle College.

The Ōtāhuhu Rovers Rugby League Club remembers Lil-Bou’s legacy in a Facebook post.

“Lil-Bou was a popular player in our U16 Leopards team this season and will be greatly missed,” the post says.

“He was often seen doing extras down at the Club field on weekends which helped with his electric playing style.”

A mother's plea

Reading her eulogy, Danira says to young people to listen to their parents.

“You guys have plenty of time to grow up.

“Be grateful that you guys are alive. Love your parents because they do so much, and they sacrifice so much for you guys."

Gone but not forgotten

As the Lyden family grieves, they remain proud of their son's legacy.

“To my son, I love you, baby,” Danira says.

“You'll always be my heart. You were the love of my life. May you rest in love.”

Musician Josh Tatofi pays tribute to Lil-Bouvalu.